Category Archives: Creative Career Cheer

Apr 29 2013

Vanessa Cariddi’s Grown Up Gigs recording is now available!


 

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Doodle from the live chat done by “Nightly Doodles

Do you guys know that I have the coolest friends ever?

There are days where I look around and remark incredulously, “This is my job!” and do a Breakfast Club-like fist pump into the air. Getting to talk to Vanessa Cariddi in my apartment about being a full-time opera singer was just the coolest.

This is my job, you guys!

And although we might’ve gotten sidetracked a bit by the sleazy guys who kept coming in and writing “hey babes” and “call me?” in the chat (no, we will not call you), we managed to get the full scoop on:

  • why she feels that 90% of what she learned at NYU wasn’t applicable to “real life” – and what she’d do differently with her education if she had to do it again
  • how she actually got paid to sing opera in her early 20s without getting cast in a show *(teaser: it involved a business plan!)
  • why it took her 15ish years to be DONE with asking for permission!
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Apr 24 2013

Grown Up Gigs with opera singer Vanessa Cariddi tomorrow!


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A real live opera singer! How cool is that?! (Obviously that’s a hypothetical question, ’cause it’s the coolest).

At 9a Pacific/12p Eastern on Thurs 4/25, I’ll be in my apartment with Vanessa Cariddi diving into what it’s really like to live the life of an opera singer. From her passion projects to driving past her face on a huge billboard, we’ll learn about her background, her thrills (trills?) and her challenges.

You’ll find us right here, and who knows…we might even sing* for you!

*Singing not guaranteed

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Mar 26 2013

8 Ways to Get Through Your Day Job Without Shooting Yourself in the Face (Rerun)


OK OK, my Entrepreneuriversary was last week, but I send clients to this post I wrote in ’11 so often that I wanted to put it back up here and now. All the points still stand in a major way. Hope it’s helpful!

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If it’s between the hours of 9a-5p and you’re reading this from your day job, keep reading. Wait, let me revise that. If you’re reading this at any point during the day or night where you’re somewhere to solely pay the bills, with the time before/after being reserved for working on your Dream Career, and you’re wondering how you can possibly do this day after day until you’re ready/ willing/ able/ comfortable/ confident in leaving without shooting yourself in the face, then keep reading.

I’ve gotten this question a lot.

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Mar 12 2013

How to Find The Perfect Career While Working the Not-So-Perfect Job (in 3 Easy Steps!)


Whether you’re wearing Golden Handcuffs or have a 2-year-old for a “boss”, I know what it’s like to try to find the perfect career while working the not-so-perfect gig. Hopefully, by taking my own experience + what I’ve seen in my clients, the video below can speed up the process for ya.

And Resources a plenty!

To discover your personal mission statement:

To discover what you wanna do when you grow up:

To make sure you survive the day job + move forward:

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Mar 05 2013

20 Jobs in 7 Years


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Create Your Own Dream by Happy Deliveries

How have I never told you guys that I had 20 jobs in 7 years time pre-2007. 20 jobs! In 7 years! Part of the job-hopping was because I was doing actor-friendly, freelance-y things…and part of it was because I was a Renaissance Soul and, once I got comfy somewhere, I got bored and wanted a new adventure…and part of it was because I was in sales and sometimes it cost me more to stay put than jump ship…but no matter – it’s all part of my story, and on the cusp of my 3rd Entrepreneuriversary (it’s March 19th!), I just have to share it with you.

Shall we set the stage? First, my 2000-2002 jobs, which I had to solely to support my auditioning habit. Just writing this makes me exhausted:

  • administering temporary tattoos at parties and events, some as far away as Deep New Jersey until 3am (it was a “safe” prom, whatever that means).
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Jan 23 2013

3 Things Your Parents Taught You About Work That Aren’t True


As someone who heard my Dad say, over and over again, “It’s called work because it’s not play” in response to “How was your day?”, I want to marry this post. So many thanks to Heather for writing this all down and speaking the absolute truth.

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Be Brave, Say Yes by Jessica Swift

My parents taught me that no one loves their job and that I should never expect to. They taught me that only artists and musicians love what they do and that’s why they don’t mind being poor forever. They taught me that the best possible scenario was to choose a career that paid well and that I “didn’t mind” so that I could then have the cash to go do the things I loved ‘later on’. Sound familiar?

My parents taught me that I need to choose a respectable career and that if my job becomes hard or mundane, well that’s just part of the territory.

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Jan 22 2013

How to Have a Creative Career (in 3 Easy Steps!)


I’m here today to talk about how to have a creative career in 3 easy steps. While the steps will be easy to articulate and understand, I have to warn you that they’re all much easier said than done. So listen to them, absorb them, let them marinate and know that the only ways to start believing them is to do the work towards them. These are all mind-shift-y sort of things (while still being practical).

How’s that for a build-up? Click Play below to make your creative career dreams a reality (And apologies again  for the points where the sound doesn’t sync to the video very well. iMovie is so not my BFF right now).


Can’t see the video? Click here to watch it on YouTube.
Prefer to listen? Click here to get the MP3.

Things I mention:

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Jan 14 2013

35 Things I’ve Learned in 35 Years


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Learn from Yesterday by Gayana

{in no particular order}

35. Wearing black is never any fun.

34. Being called “weird” or “different” or “unique” is the best compliment you can get – once you’re coming up into your 30s. If you’re smart, you’ll see it as a compliment from the get-go.

33. Don’t marry someone you know is gay. They won’t change for you.

32. Don’t be wary of meeting people on the Internet. One of them will be your husband (thank you, Friendster).

31. Healthy relationships don’t consist of extreme compromise or the surrendering of your dreams. If you find yourself thinking, “But this is what someone does in a relationship” (romantic or otherwise), it most certainly means the opposite. Cut those ties.

30. It’s better to be alone than to be with someone who’s not right for you.

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Jan 11 2013

The Grown Up Gigs Recording (just this once!)


It’s been an entire 36 hours, and I’m still high from the fun that was the premiere of my Grown Up Gigs “show”! Megan Collins and I had such a big-time blast talking about:

  • how she was picked up by a syndicated wire and got featured in GQ
  • what “counts” as networking (and how to make it less torturous)
  • the falsity around “overnight” success stories 
  • learning to say No 
  • how getting laid off was the best thing that could have happened to her
  • working with me :)
  • having an “And” career
  • how she makes money from her blog
  • her worst/lowest moment (and how she dug herself out)
  • how she changes her mindset to get out of the Why Me?! loop
  • how to own being an “expert” (even if you have no direct schooling or experience in what you set out to do, and especially if you’re a woman)
  • setting consistent & realistic goals

It was an action-packed, laughter-filled, inspiration-inducing, educationally-amazeballs hour thanks to everyone who joined us live & asked such fab questions (you know who you are).

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Jan 10 2013

Coming Out of the Closet as a Career Slut


Not all relationships are meant to last forever, and as Bettina Shzu shows us, not all jobs are meant to last forever either. Read on to see how “sleeping around” helped her get closer to her passionate career.Where to Next

Where to Next by Courtney OQuist

Hey Job,

Sorry, we’ve grown apart. It’s not you; it’s me. Actually, it’s both of us, but it’s no one’s fault.

As you know I’ve been experimenting on the side. I haven’t fallen in love yet but I know enough now to know that being with you isn’t right for me. And if it’s not right for one of us, it’s not right for the both of us.

We had a good run, didn’t we?

See you around!
xo

Yesterday was my last day at my job. Oops, I mean my ex-job. I was at the same company for six years.

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